Since blogs became popular people write about anything they’re interesting in; Fashion, Beauty, Entertainment, Life, Personal projects,DIY’s The Environment and… what am I missing? oh yeah Sex.
Sex blogs are very popular, (thanks cosmo for existing by the way) some are informative and some of them are just about the author’s sex experience and that makes me think…Is that their actual job? Have sex and then blog about it? That’s interesting because is like if you were getting pay for blog about your life but there is a thin line here that I would like to point at. Getting pay for blog about your life is one thing and getting pay for blog about your sex life well… that’s another story. It really depends on your point of view but since I see it (from a raw point on view, or at least that’s how I feel it) getting paid to write about your sex life wouldn’t be like getting paid for having sex and doesn’t that have a name?
I never see it like that before until today.
I read a blog about a girl that decided to stop having sex with her boyfriend and wrote how she felt good about it because that made her focus more on herself and she also wrote about her past sex experience, I thought “wow people are really comfortable putting their sex lives out there” I mean one thing is to talk about it with your friends and another is to blog away about it.
There’s a cosmo writer that blogs about doing the deed with her dude (click here to read all the juicy details) her most recent blog is about sex challenges that she complete on 31 days. She details everything she did with her boyfriend. Of course her identity is secret but that’s her job, have lots of sex with her boyfriend and then report about it. Her boyfriend must be trill to have a cool girlfriend like that.
On my very personal opinion I wouldn’t like to expose my sex life like that (even if is anonymous) and if that would be my job I’ll be just annoyed, sex is something intimate that is only shared with your partner not the whole world. From the moment you make it part of your job routine it just stops being intimate and the feeling of must do is just annoying. Not that I have something against it because I don’t actually some of the stories are fun to read but I just never thought about it that way.
How do you feel about sex bloggers? Would you be comfortable blogging about your sex life if that were you job or your partner’s job?